Here is one reason you (we) aren’t hearing much from Gabriel on this blog lately:
This is his schedule for next week. Now, it might look manageable until you consider that for every hour spent in class he should spend two or three out of class doing homework. We’ve quit saying “maybe next semester will be easier” and changed our mantra to “in so-and-so many months we’ll be done.”
I was telling him my brilliant idea for holiday cards this year, and he wondered if he’d be put through the torture of participating in a family photo shoot. He thought maybe I could Photoshop him into a picture of our family. I said I could do better than that; we could put his picture in an oval in the corner of the photo like they do for deceased family members. Underneath it we could print, “Gabriel Jantzi, dearly beloved husband and father. We look forward to reuniting with you in about 20 months when you’re done with that ding-dang-dong vet school.”
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Baby is due in a week and a half, more or less. My family doctor assured me yesterday that I’ll go into labour today “at 4:00, and it’ll all be over by tea time.” He was joking, of course, but I’m pleading with this baby not to take TOO long to come out, because if it does, Mama will go OFF HER HEAD.
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Last night from about 11:30 to 1:00 we listened to the neighbor’s adult son as he sat in front of their outdoor fireplace, listened to loud Christmas and country music, drank beer, and shouted randomly into the fire. (I got the giggles when “Country Roads, Take Me Home” came on. Does anyone else who worked at Yoder’s Restaurant remember Moose belting that out on his gittar?)
“Is he retarded?” Gabriel wondered. “Why would you drink yourself stupid all alone on a Friday night? How could be any fun?”
I suppose someone else might look at the schedule above ย and wonder how that could be any fun, too.ย These are the mysteries we ponder at midnight.
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October 15, 2011 at 1:42 pm
Karen
We read this and Wes said, It’s good to know we’re not alone. ๐ Not doing the same thing, of course, but pretty much the same feeling. Hope you have a restful day tomorrow!
October 15, 2011 at 7:53 pm
Michelle Kuepfer
ahhhh…find a way to keep your feet firmly planted, and remember if you live to be 80, these next 20 months will only be a blip in the passage of time.
Somedays I really do look forward to saying “Do you remember when the kids were little? Ahhh, those were the days!” As for now…some days it’s hard to see the beauty of this stage!
We’ll miss you guys this weekend, as the Jantzi’s are getting together to bid Gabriel’s parents “farewell”
-Michelle
October 15, 2011 at 8:49 pm
thelongtrick
Those sound like wise words from someone who’s been there. Thanks…and we’d love to see all of you Jantzis too!
October 15, 2011 at 10:17 pm
abigail
This had me laughing out loud! Hope that baby makes it out real soon! Blessings to you and yours!
October 15, 2011 at 10:22 pm
M&M
Wow! You have such a gift of “proper words” that it may get you in trouble! We are so blest with your high speed communication! ๐ Mary tried calling you, but it was a bad connection; you kept saying, “Mom, I will cal you back” but it was not Mom. ๐ Blessings to your entire clan! \”/
October 15, 2011 at 10:49 pm
thelongtrick
Ha ha, I called my mom and she said she hadn’t called…then we figured out it was your number. I may try to get you on Monday!
October 16, 2011 at 6:54 pm
Marylou
*ding-dang-dong vet school* Cracked me up!!! ๐
Hope the baby comes soon!
October 17, 2011 at 12:49 pm
capturedbygina
what a great post to read on a Monday morning to get me laughing! so well remember the evening guitar sessions – wonderful memories – and what a great idea for a photo card – I dare u to do that ๐
October 18, 2011 at 12:24 am
Jeanene
Hang in there with Gabriel’s schedule! While Wendell was in school, he & I used to tell each other (not quite believing it at the moment . . . ) that someday we’d look back and say, “Those were good days!” We were right–we do exactly that. But even now we haven’t completely forgotten how hard some of those days were. You’ll make it.
October 18, 2011 at 9:59 am
thelongtrick
Thanks, Jeanene. It’s good to hear from someone who’s been there and survived. ๐
October 20, 2011 at 5:15 am
Wendy
Oh, Jenn! I didn’t laugh at all. My heart broke for you. I am with you. I am waiting for ding dang dong PhD to be over. And it will be. But not just quite yet. Who knows? Maybe Korey and Gabriel can graduate “together”… I’ll write you a longer email really soon. For now, I’ll ask God to send Baby, patience, strength and a heaping portion of bear-with-it-ness. I think of you many times a day lately. Maybe for good reason. I won’t stop praying. I promise.
October 20, 2011 at 5:16 am
Wendy
Oops. I did find the funny bits funny. That’s not what I meant. I hope you understand.